Bank of Mum & Dad – An Alternative to Gifted Deposits

Gifted deposits are on the rise, (Property Industry Eye, Apr 2017). There has been an increase in parents offering financial help to their children in a bid to get them on the property ladder. This can take the form of a gifted deposit which is a non-returnable gift of money forming all, or part, of a deposit. Some parents prefer not to part with their hard-earned money. Below is an alternative, which we endured last year.

It came out of the blue, with no warning.  Our eldest daughter telephoned to ask if she could come and live with us for a year.  And when I say she, I include her partner and six-month old beagle. They had decided that it would be impossible to save for a property and pay rent at the same time.  They were right, of course.  It is a tall order. 

I gave a cautious yes, subject to agreement from Lee, which was by no means a given.  He took it fairly well, then turned pale and went for a long walk. Our daughter is a boomerang child and had already returned home several times since she first left. He was worried that if he let her back in, she would stay forever. 

We entered negotiations with our daughter and decided that both sets of parents would share the load.  They would live with us for the first six months and then with the other set of parents.

There were challenges to overcome.  We have different standards of tidiness and different expectations of dog behaviour.  The beagle considered rules to be something that only applied to other dogs. She took control of the household for the duration of her visit. But six months came and went without any serious disagreements and they moved into her partner’s parents place earlier this year. 

It is now summer and they have moved into their own house and have their own mortgage. They managed to save £12,000 in a year from not having to pay rent. It is more money than we could easily have given and it has been a relatively pain-free way to help.

So, if you have a spare room and limitless patience it is worth considering this option.  If you would rather pay a gifted deposit, than allow your adult offspring to return home ever again, give Lee a call on 01242 673341 for more information.

NB: most banks and building societies accept gifted deposits. They will need a letter from the donor to confirm that they will have no legal right to the money once the purchase is complete.  A word of warning – gifted deposits may have inheritance tax implications. They cannot usually be accepted if they originate from overseas.